Proverbs 11:13 NIV, “A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy person keeps a secret.”
It’s a blessing when God places trustworthy people in our lives who can keep a secret. Many individuals have been hurt because of people who betrayed them by gossiping. Gossip ruins reputations and destroys relationships. As children of God, one of our goals should be to love and protect people. Gossip does neither.

Before we “share information”, we should take time to think before we speak, and consider our motives for sharing the information with others. We should also consider how our sharing will affect all of those involved, and even more importantly, we should pray regularly to ask God for strength to stay away from gossip and other ungodly conversations.
May God help us all to be trustworthy people who He can depend on to show His love to others, and help fulfill His purposes here on Earth.
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💯 true!
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Hey Renee! Thanks 🤗
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Great advice Dawn. I think it does so much harm and is damaging especially to little children. Have a wonderful day. Love ❤️ Joni
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We definitely need to protect little kids. Thanks Joni, love you too. ❤️
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🤗💕❤️
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I agree completely Dawn. Gossiping is so harmful. We should pray like you said to not be a part of gossiping.
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Yes prayer is much needed so we don’t get caught up.
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Gossip never does any good. I truly despise gossips.
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That’s true. Me too.
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Dawn , thank you for writing this. Yes, gossip is serious sin, and listening to gossip is also a serious sin.
As we develop discernment, we often know which people are chronic gossips. May the Lord help us to stay away from their company.
However, we would we doing them a tremendous act of love by telling them that we are choosing not to associate with them because, in the end, both gossiping and listening to gossip defile us.
Perhaps then they would stop gossiping about others.
Gossiping appeals to our frail, fallen nature, but through God’s grace, and the power of the Holy Spirit, the Lord will help us to overcome this sin. 🤗
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You’re welcome Sally. That’s a great point, it would be helpful to others, especially those we have regularly contact with, to share with them how we feel about their actions. Thanks for sharing this. 🤗
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Thanks for sharing this, big sis. 🤗 We need to take note of this. 💯
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You’re welcome little sis! ❤️
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Amen
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Trust takes time to build but can be lost quickly if we are not careful
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That’s true big brother.
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The Bible warns us of this little vessel we call a tongue. Great post
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The tongue can do great harm. Thanks Brenda.
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Godly advice! I make it a practice to live by this verse, ”He who goes about as a slanderer reveals secrets, Therefore do not associate with a gossip.”
Proverbs 20:19. Pretty cut and dry!
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That’s a great verse to live by. Thanks Deb!
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May God help us to be trustworthy indeed. Hallelujah!
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Amen. 🙏🏿
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Timeless advice for each of us to bear witness to. We all need to be trustworthy colleagues, family members, and friends.
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Yes, being trustworthy people of integrity will show others the love of Jesus. Thanks!
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It is important to establish a reputation of trust. When something personal is mentioned it should not be shared with others, and gossip should be avoided. It goes back to the saying if you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all. Have a wonderful week Dawn! 🌼🦋💗
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That saying never grows old! It’s a great rule to live by. Thanks Jeanne. Hope your weekend has been peaceful. ❤️
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Gossiping is one of the little sins that so easily beset us and as you said, it can do great damage. May God help us to control our tongue.
Also, thank you for writing that great review on my book. I also wrote a review on your book and will be purchasing the others. The reason for the delay is that Amazon would not allow me to write a review after reading your book on kindle. I had to make a purchase on Amazon, which I did yesterday. I guess it is because I live outside the USA. I am not sure. I shared your book and the review on my Facebook. Have a blessed weekend.
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You’re welcome! Thanks so much for the review and I appreciate the share on your Facebook. I hope your weekend has been restful. Blessings! ❤️
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It was a pleasure. My weekend was restful. We had some much needed rain. Have a blessed week in the Lord.
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As followers of Christ, w’re required to show love (John 13:34,35) and gossip is the complete opposite. We find more joy encouraging and uplifting others.
“Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are of serious concern, whatever things are righteous, whatever things are chaste, whatever things are lovable, whatever things are well-spoken-of, whatever things are virtuous, and whatever things are praiseworthy, continue considering these things.” – Philippians 4:8
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Thanks for sharing this verse! May our thoughts be focused on good things that please God. Blessings!
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This is so true. Many relationship has been wounded by ‘gossip’.
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Yes gossip can do much harm. Thanks for sharing. Have a blessed week.
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I absolutely 💗 this.
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Thanks Barb! 💕
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“May God help us all to be trustworthy people who He can depend on to show His love to others, and help fulfill His purposes here on Earth.” Indeed! God is looking for hearts trustworthy, that can truly display His agape love!
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Thanks Warren! It’s so important to show His love each day.
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Absolutely! Love like He loves!
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