Gossip Betrays Trust

Proverbs 11:13 NIV, “A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy person keeps a secret.”

God knows all there is to know about us, but He doesn’t go around revealing everything to everyone. We can trust Him. Loyal, trustworthy people are a reflection of God’s love. People who can be trusted to keep information confidential, without giving in to the temptation to gossip and spread rumors are people of integrity.

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People of integrity understand that time spent gossiping about others is time that can be spent praying for them instead. They use wisdom when it comes to speaking about others because they know what and what not to say. They also know who and who not to say it to.

Being a trustworthy, gossip-free person is a true sign of maturity in Christ. He will strengthen us to stay away from pointless, destructive conversations about others. Love seeks to build people up and not tear them down.

James 1:26 NLT, “If you claim to be religious but don’t control your tongue, you are fooling yourself, and your religion is worthless.”

Don’t Withhold Good

Proverbs 3:27, “Do not withhold good from those who deserve it when it’s in your power to help them.”

Yesterday morning I was reading Proverbs chapter 3. Verse 27 kept jumping out at me. I kept thinking to myself that if everyone lived by this, the world would be a much better place. It’s pretty easy to withhold good from others because we live in an age that reinforces, ”looking out for number 1” all of the time. Of course we need balance and it is important to take care of ourselves. But what would happen if everyone made an attempt to regularly think of the needs of others, and help them whenever possible?

The closer we get to Jesus, the more compassionate and loving we become toward others. He helps us to look beyond the surface and see the true need. He helps us to let go of the fear of lack, and give when it is in our power to do so.

There is so much more to giving than just money, a simple compliment can make someone smile. There is one greeter at church who always gives hugs. Many Sunday mornings I was thankful for her hug. Handshakes are good, but hugs are awesome! Even in my own life, I’m asking God to help me not to withhold good from others. No matter how small the deed may seem, if we’re lead to give, we must obey God and give.

We serve a God who gives of Himself freely everyday. As His representatives, we have the privilege of doing the same. Learning to let God be our standard instead of the world, will open up a whole new sea of opportunities to give of ourselves that we never even knew existed.

Kindness Comes From Our LORD JESUS CHRIST

Thanks Mrs. Holliman @ God’s Love for this beautiful post! Kindness comes from our Lord. We should be kind to others, and He gives us the ability to do so. Galatians 5:22-23 NIV, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.”

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Kindness is better than life. Without out some type of kindness this world would be worse than what it is now. That’s why we have the LORD around us to keep the kindness going. The LORD has that kindness that never end and warms your heart up to follow the LORD’S footsteps. You will never get nowhere in life by being mean or talking about people. We have to help one another like the LORD helped us. That’s what the LORD would want us all to do. 

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People have to understand that we are out here to do the LORD’S work. Showing kindness is a step on bring people to the LORD and making sure that people are okay. We are out here doing what the LORD has been doing for years and it’s our turn. It’s a lot of people that are going through a lot of things in…

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VOGUE PARODY: 73 Questions with Dawn

Vogue’s 73 Questions is a video series on YouTube whereby Vogue asks celebrities 73 questions under 10 minute. Bloggers and Vloggers have also started their own version of this method, which is a way of getting to know fellow bloggers better.

A big thank you to my little sister Bukola of BukolaOrry.com for tagging me. Her blog covers a variety of interesting topics such as lifestyle, motherhood, and haircare.

Be sure to visit her inspiring blog at:

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Let’s dive right into the questions.

1. What’s your usual Starbucks order?

I do not go to Starbucks. ☕️

2. What does your work station look like?

It’s not too bad, but I have some papers laying around. It could be neater. 😊

3. Favourite food?

🍕 Pizza

4. What do you think of open relationships?

That’s a concept someone came up with to avoid true commitment. I don’t agree with it. 😥

5. What is your favourite video game?

Well I have not played video games since I was little. Back then it was Pac-Man. 😂

6. Guilty pleasure treat?

Candy and popcorn 🍿 🍭

7. Your favourite movie?

Private Benjamin 😊

8. Favourite author?

Joyce Meyer 📚

9. Favourite book?

The Bible. 📖

10. Twitter or Instagram?

I don’t have an Instagram. Twitter I have but don’t really use it. I just share blog post to it. 😊

11. Desktop or laptop?

Desktop 🖥

12. Best advice you’ve ever received?

Be confident, and remember you’re just as important as the next person. (My mom says this.) 👏🏿👏🏿

13. What project are you working on right now?

The biggest thing on my plate right now is preparing for my relocation. 📦

14. Favourite colour?

Green 💚

15. Did you get good grades in school?

Yes I did in most subjects. 📚

16. Dream job?

One where I can work and travel occasionally. 🧳

17. Play any sports?

No I don’t, but I like watching baseball ⚾️

18. Do you have a degree?

Yes. Bachelors in Accounting with a minor in Business Management. 📜

19. Nationality?

American 🇺🇸

20. What is your favourite kind of blog post?

The ones that are inspiring, especially when they encourage me in my faith. 🙏🏿

22. Describe yourself in three words?

Serene, Selfless, and Dedicated (per my daughter) 🍃

23. If you were a rapper what would your stage name be?

I’m not sure and I’m not creative enough to come up with one lol. 🤔

24. Who was the last person you DM?

A friend of mine. 👩🏾

25: What’s on top of your wishlist right now?

The freedom to travel more. ✈️

26. Sorting house?

I don’t understand this question.

27. How many tattoos do you have?

I have two. 😊

28. What are you most grateful for this year?

My daughter successfully graduating from college. 👩🏽‍🎓

29. What’s the best thing that’s happened to you this month?

Turning in my notice at work. It’s a step of faith towards the next thing God has for me. 🙌🏿

30. What’s the best thing that’s happened to you today?

Got off work early. ⏰

31. What’s the best thing ever?

Knowing Jesus ✝️

32. Favourite season?

Spring 🌸

33. Favourite holiday?

Christmas 🎄

34. What fictional character do you relate to most?

🤔

35. Do you like surprises?

It depends on what it is.

36. What’s the biggest surprise you’ve ever had?

Finding out I was having my daughter. 👶🏽

37. Which surprise made you cry?

None that I can remember. 🤔

38. What’s the best surprise you’ve given somebody else?

A surprise birthday party🎂

39. Do you like muffins?

Yes, I do. 🧁

40. Do you cook often?

Not lately. I’ve been enjoying my daughter’s cooking since she’s been home. 👩‍🍳

41. What’s your favourite dessert?

Sweet Potato Pie 🥧

42. Is there a dessert you don’t like?

Not that I can think of right now. 🤔

43. Cake or pie?

My favorite dessert is a pie, but I actually eat more cake. 🍰

44. What’s your least favourite food?

I don’t like raw tomatoes. But they are good to me when they are cooked or seasoned like in pico de gallo. 🍅

45. What’s your favourite condiment?

Hot Sauce 🔥

46. It’s 4 am on a random Saturday. What are you eating?

Nothing. I’m most likely asleep. 💤

47. If you could teach a college class what would it be called?

Thinking of Others 101. I think this is much needed in today’s society. ❤️

48. Best animated film?

Something with Scooby-Doo 😊

49. What has a guy done or said to impress you?

I think it’s nice when I’m out in the store and you come across men who still hold the door open. 🚪

50. The best thing to do on a first date?

Probably something with an atmosphere that will allow you to talk. 😊

51. The worst thing to do on a first date?

Reveal too much personal information. 🤫

53. Best comic book character?

Charlie Brown 😊

54. Name three things which can always be found in your purse.

Hand sanitizer, wallet, and headphones 😊

55. Favourite drink?

Pepsi 🥤

56. If you could play a historical character in a movie who would it be?

The widow who was with Elijah in 1 Kings 17. Her faith was inspiring. ✝️

57. Kittens or puppies?

Puppies 🐶

58. Favourite sushi roll?

I like the vegetable rolls. 🍣

59. What lipstick do you use?

I usually wear lip gloss. 💄

60. What foundation do you use?

Artistry and Tarte 😊

61. Blow-dry or air dry?

Air Dry. 😊

62. Who is your fashion icon?

None. 😊

63. Favourite Disney Character?

I don’t have one.😊

64. What are you doing tomorrow?

Not sure 😊

65. Movie you laughed the hardest through?

Chevy Chase Movies are funny.😂

66. Movie that made you cry?

Too many to name.😊

67. If you could sing a duet with anybody, who would you choose?

Shirley Caesar 🎤

68. If your life was a song what would the title be?

🤔

69. What’s your favourite animal?

Dogs. 🐕

70. Favourite illustrator?

Shel Silverstein 😊

71. The person you want to have coffee with?

Joyce Meyer 😊

72. What country would you like to visit?

Italy 🇮🇹

73. Best way to decompress?

Watch a good movie. 🎥

**Anyone who wishes to participate in this tag, please feel free to do so!! 🌺

He Guards And Protects

Proverbs 2:8 NLT, “He guards the paths of the just and protects those who are faithful to him.”

This verse used to be the theme verse for a singles ministry I attended in the past. I also had it on the dashboard in my car for awhile. The verse reminded me daily that the Lord is guarding my paths and protecting me. Even as I drive down the road, navigating my way through the busy traffic, He is watching over me. It’s a comfort to be kept by our Savior.

It’s easy to become fearful with all the things that are happening around us. Even within our own families at times, there are tragedies and other unfortunate things that we must endure. But keeping our eyes on the Lord, helps us to remain anchored. No matter how rough things may get, we can trust Him to take good care of us.

Staying faithful to the Lord is no easy task. But deciding to stay on the narrow path and be faithful to Him, will lead us to good things. We may not understand every turn we take or every hill we must climb, but God will be with us every step of the way. Even through difficulties, His love will sustain us.

Whatever path you are traveling, God has His wall of protection all around you, so keep on following as the Holy Spirit leads you. God always has a plan, and His plans are good.

Jesus, Our Daily Bread

John 6:35, “Then Jesus declared, “I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never go hungry, and whoever believes in me will never be thirsty.”

I hadn’t heard this song Breathe by Michael Smith in years, but I woke up this morning with it on my mind. Truly Jesus is the air that we breathe. As Christians, His Holy Presence living inside of us is everything. He is the bread of life. In Him we are filled completely. He is the One who can take away our emptiness and replace it with joy. His words give us life and hope.

Praying you have a very blessed day!

I hope you enjoy this song:

Breathe by Michael Smith

Prayer In The Waiting Room

Colossians 4:2 NLT, “Devote yourselves to prayer with an alert mind and a thankful heart.”

Yesterday I had to go visit the GYN for my annual exam. It’s a very busy place, so when I go, I always know that I’ll be waiting at least an hour before I see the doctor, but this time my wait ended up being an hour and a half. I waited one hour in the main waiting room, and thirty minutes in the exam room.

All the women I saw were anticipating the arrival of a little one. I thought to myself, at this point in my life, I wouldn’t want to change places with them. But I also remember when I was there like them, expecting my daughter, and how exciting it was as the time for her arrival drew closer. It’s hard to believe how fast the years have flown by.

I was happy when I thought my name was called, but I was a little preoccupied on my phone, so I verified with the medical assistant at the door that she did say, “Dawn”. I was glad she said yes when I asked her. When I got into the exam room, she gave me a pink gown to change into.

As I was sitting on the exam table waiting for the doctor to arrive, I noticed the gown was a little flawed in some places. All of a sudden, I begin to think about all the women who had worn that gown before me. I felt the Holy Spirit leading me to say a prayer for them.

I thanked God for all the wonderful blessings that He had bestowed upon them. I also realized that some of the women who had worn the gown had received a life changing diagnosis. Some had struggles with infertility. Maybe even some were victims of rape or some other type of abuse that had altered their lives. Buried in the hearts of the women who had worn that pink gown, were many joys, but also many pains.

In all the years I have been going to the GYN, I cannot recall ever being lead to pray for other women while waiting in the exam room, but I’m thankful I had the opportunity to do so. I’m thankful God used my prayers to help bring comfort and healing to women who I will never know personally.

My doctor, who is originally from the country of Jamaica, is a very intelligent and personable lady. I always enjoy talking with her. She has a way of helping you to get over the fact that you had a long wait. She’s really good at what she does, so I assume that’s why she has so many patients. I’m thankful I found her office, and had her as a GYN doctor while in Florida. God always leads us to the right places with the right people.

We can’t physically be everywhere or know everything, but through prayer, God uses us to make a difference. Our prayers can reach all the way to places we can’t go. And they can help change the lives of people we may never see.

1 Thessalonians 5:17 KJB, “Pray without ceasing.”