James 4:1-3 ESV
1 What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you? 2 You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel. You do not have, because you do not ask. 3 You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions.
These verses always cause me to not only make sure that I am carrying everything to God in prayer, but to also make sure that I am praying with the right motives. When I am intentional about my asking, I am astounded by the peace God gives me and the answers He brings my way.

Asking puts things into perspective by reminding us that God is in control, cares about our needs and desires to walk with us through our daily lives. There have been times when God’s answers were different from what I prayed for, but I discovered that His way was best. He often chooses a path for us that excludes the quick fixes we sometimes hope for. His path usually involves slower changes that lead to spiritual maturity and deeper intimacy with Him.
It can be tempting to only want what is easiest but trusting God means surrendering to His plan and understanding that through His love and wisdom, we will receive the right answers with the best outcomes.





