Proverbs 18:17, NIV, “In a lawsuit the first to speak seems right, until someone comes forward and cross-examines.”
It can be easy to form an opinion when we hear one side of a story, but if there are two people involved, that means there are two stories involved. Therefore, we must be careful not to jump to conclusions. Even in our own lives, it is pretty easy to point fingers when we encounter conflicts, however, it pays to examine ourselves and see areas where we may have faults. This doesn’t mean the other person involved has no faults, it just means that in humility we realize that we, or those we love, may also have faults. Prayer is a huge help with this, the Holy Spirit will help us to see truth in every situation.
Satan is the accuser, who is always trying to accuse and condemn us (Revelation 12:10); I’m thankful that God is merciful, and willing to hear our side of the story when we go to Him in prayer and repentance. We should strive to extend the same kindness to others whenever possible.
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I so agree Dawn. It does take humility to reflect on our own actions or of those we love and understand that we are not exactly without fault. And I do think that when we have that approach the situation does not tend to escalate with emotions and anger.
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Great point, when we are intentional about how we view the situation it helps us to control our emotions. Thank you Manu!
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Amen, amen. Glory to God.
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God bless you Joseph!
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Amen.
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God bless you!
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I’m thankful God is willing to hear my side of the story! You have offered us much-needed godly advice, Dawn!
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I’m so thankful too Deb! Thank you!
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We are blessed that God listens to us, is merciful and forgives us, it is important that we listen to others, are open minded, and willing to forgive. In this election year, these traits are really needed! Have a blessed week, Dawn!
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So true, listening and showing respect to others is very important during this election time. Thanks Jeanne, have a blessed week too. ❤️
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Did I tell you I tagged you for the I Love My Job Tag
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No I don’t think so. Thank you!
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Your welcome
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Humility & apologizing quickly are two things most of us need to practice more often. Lord help me be better at this.
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Very true! I have to rely on the Lord to keep me humble.
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Amen
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Thanks Mom!
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Extending kindness is so needed now
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Yes it is. Glad you show so much kindness out in Lincoln. 🤗
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Apt, big sis!. We need to be fair in our hearing and thankful we have a model in Christ Jesus. 😊
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Yes, being fair is important. I’m thankful too for the model Jesus gave us. Blessings little sis. 🤗
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I like the NIV version of this verse and how you ties it in with Satan as the acuser of the brethren. I thank the Lord that He does not listen to Satan but waits to hear our side of the story. Thank you, Dawn for sharing the revelation of this verse. I was deeply moved by it. Blessings.
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You’re welcome! We would be in trouble if Satan had the final say. So glad our God is merciful to us. Blessings Beverley!
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Great discussion Dawn! With humility, may we all take time to truly listen to each other.
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Thank you. Yes humility is key.
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